Marking off the playing field
Croquet in the backyard — a favorite memory from my family’s annual trips to Iowa in the heat of summer.
Within an hour or two after piling out of the van, and after we’d had iced tea and cookies in Grandma’s kitchen, we’d tromp out back to set up the croquet with all the hoops and stakes, wooden balls and mallets.
My grandpa would mark off the playing field, his long strides measuring the distance from one hoop to the next.
Then, TOCCKK!, the first ball is struck and the game begins.
Something like this is going on in the second chapter of Tale of Genji. After a fast-paced opener, this chapter settles down and we begin to see how the game is to be played. Genji is now 17 years old and a young captain in the palace guards. He and the other palace residents are confined indoors during early summer rains.
So young Genji ends up holding court with his close friend and two older men. The four of them start talking about women — the ideal woman, women of rank they’ve observed, and women they’ve known.
I get the impression that the narrator is pacing off the course that will be run through the next 52 chapters — rehearsing what traits are attractive in a woman, which ones are dangerous, and what’s expected of a wife. And although Genji should be paying attention, the narrator points out that he’s found dozing off at intervals while the older men are spouting off conventional wisdom and sharing personal missteps.
As they talk about the ideal woman, we get an idea of how hard it is (impossible, even?) for a real woman to meet the criteria of the day.
For example, it’s the woman’s responsibility to keep her husband faithful — and if he isn’t, she’s the one who needs to fix it. As one of the older gentlemen says, “Most of the time it is the wife’s attitude that helps her husband’s fancies to pass.”
Like croquet, there are definite rules and an order to things that must be followed. Break the rules, and you’re out of luck — back to the starter’s stake. Go through the hoops, and you get to advance.
But I have a feeling that Genji will be one of those players who doesn’t like to play by the rules.
